How Men Think

What’s On His Mind

When it comes to conversations of an adult nature, men and women generally perceive things entirely differently. If you are a woman who is considering entering the phone chat scene, you need to understand these differences and make use of the knowledge. This will enable you to make the most of each conversation and enjoy the experience of chatting to as many guys as you like.

How do you find out what he is thinking?

First of all, there are plenty of really nice gentlemen out there who are legitimately looking for someone loving to spend the rest of their lives with. There are romantics who dream about having a woman who will appreciate their little love poems and tokens of affection. These men can sometimes feel shy in traditional dating situations and may find that using a phone service, is a more comfortable way to meet those who may like this facet of their personality.

There are also those who are not looking for anything in particular and are quite happy just to talk. They tend to be open in their conversations and are enthusiastic about making new friends, however, they may not always be seeking a romantic or sexual affair. But there are a large number of single guys who are interested in having plenty of dates with many females. Quite often, they hope that these encounters will eventually lead to some type of sexual relationship.

It is not unusual for a man to use chat services just to seek out sex partners. This is an aspect of every day adult life, which is perfectly normal but something for you to be aware of. These gentlemen generally have an almost overly confident manner and often you’ll recognise the, sometimes, lame pick up lines that you’ve heard a million times before. Of course, there are many women who are also wanting casual, sexual encounters and if that’s what you are looking for, then you will not find these smooth operators to be off-putting, at all.

Ask Questions

Every day, thousands of Australians call adult phone services for a myriad of different reasons. Asking questions, without turning the discussion into an interrogation, is the perfect way to establish exactly what a guy is really thinking.  It may be a good idea to jot down a few notes to have handy, so that you can remember what it is you want to ask. Take care not to pepper the first five minutes of any discussion, with far too many questions. You will do much better if you take it slowly and gently, by simply talking normally and raising occasional topics which you are keen to know his response to.

By listening carefully to what he says, you will quickly learn if he is nervous, lacks confidence or maybe he is lonely. Be kind and considerate if this is the case. Yes….even males can sometimes be very vulnerable. On the other hand, you will also encounter men who sound very happy, successful, confident and full of life. Just like real life social situations, everyone is different and you need to establish who it is that you wish to get to know better.

You can ask the man you are talking to about sport, current events, politics, movies and even whether he has pets. If he is happy to talk about these sorts of topics, then you will know that his prime motivation is not necessarily just based on sex.

Learning about the thought processes of the male mind, when using telephone chat services is important. It can help you to make the best choices when deciding who you would like to devote more of your leisure time to and maybe even eventually meet. Obviously, some guys (and women) are sexually motivated and that’s just part of being in the mating game. But it is only one aspect. Remember, there are many genuine, lovely people who are well worth getting to know better.