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So you’ve made the decision that you’d like to give Booty Chat Australia a try. This may be your first attempt at phone dating. If so, take it slow and you’ll be guided through all the steps you need, to make a successful and tempting introduction, which in turn makes you sound attractive to men and women who may to want to talk to you and perhaps get to know you better. Try to have a smile in your voice when you make your initial call. It will come across very well and show that you are a person worth getting to know.
It doesn’t matter what reasons you are using adult telephone chat for, you will find like minded people online to connect with and have fun conversations with. Many callers love the instant interaction. Some are looking for a conversation only or are wanting to find new friends. Others are looking to hook up and many want to make a love connection. It can be whatever you want it to be. You may be looking for your perfect match – your ideal partner for life.
It can be really exciting when you try it for the first time. Don’t be nervous, there are many others who are new to it as well. Try to be confident with your introduction. Be specific, so that everyone will know exactly what you are looking for and then they can decide if they wish to make a connection with you, or not. The same goes for you. When you are listening to all the introductions, take note of what you are hearing and then decide which of the callers you would like to connect with. Remember too, that you may like the sound of someone but then when you get to speak to them again, they may not be what you are looking for. That’s okay. It’s all about your choice. Don’t feel as if you have to be committed either. You can just choose to speak and listen, but you never need to feel obliged to take things any further. Many of our callers do just that. They are not interested in meeting for dates. Also, not everyone is interested in phone sex (although some are). For some people, it’s all about making a connection, having conversations with like minded individuals and not about hooking up at all.
The beauty of phone chat is that you can be whoever you wish to be. If you are confident in another persona, then use that to make your initial introduction. Of course if you intend meeting up and going on dates, you may wish to ‘come clean’ eventually. You can also try ringing at different times of the day. You will hear lots of different people online during the day than you would, perhaps at night time. It’s the perfect way to get to know someone initially, without the awkwardness of a blind date. You can speak to them, hear their voice, find out what they like and what they dislike. Then if you are both interested, take it further.
Being a good listener is a really important, key aspect of being successful when using adult dating services. Make sure you’re giving the other person a chance to speak and not just talking non-stop about yourself. If you listen carefully to what’s being said, you are in a much better position to ask sensible, meaningful questions. This conveys a clear message to the other person that you are truly interested in what they are saying and that you are paying attention.
Most people love to talk about their interests, hobbies and passions. You can even initiate some conversations about current events, holidays, the weather etc. Then, once again, listen to what the other person says and respond with a comment or two. This is a wonderful technique to build your confidence and learn so much about others.
The great thing about talking this way, is that you can take control of the conversation and steer it in the direction you want it to go. You can be in the comfort of your home surroundings, if that suits you. So why not grab a cup of coffee, pick up your telephone and get started right now.